Helping a widower...

A new member posted they finding it really hard since they lost their husband. Members ralied round and gave support, this is their story:

Hi, I'm a widow of 12mths standing and finding it harder to get through each day instead of easier my partner was my life so have few friends as we did everything together im hoping to meet new friends for a chat or maybe even meet up with some of them to get me into a new life x

Advice:

Firstly may I say how terribly sorry I am regarding the lost of your partner. There are some lovely people on AllJoinOn.com, many of which I have personally met with and had to stay at my home. I sincerely hope that like me, you find All Join On offers you a life line. Good luck, x

Hiya get into the chat rooms there are lots of friendly people in there and we like to meet new members. Once you have met a few people that live near your area you may like to meet them for more social occasions. Whatever you do please don't sit at home alone. There is a world of people out there that want to say hello to you and make friends with you.

I can only say same as others, come into bar or cafe and get chatting. I've only been here a few weeks and already made some friends and not good at typing, hey dont worry im still a one finger wonder, I hope to promote my self to 2 very soon!

dear anon...im sorry your feeling so down...but i agree with all the others come into the chat rooms...I joined AllJoinOn.com a few weeks ago and I am starting to make friends everyone is so lovely on here...hope to speak to you soon

Hello anonymous, to make friends and meet people it might be better to go into the "bar" or the "cafe" on this website, there you can chat to others and make new friends, you dont have to say where you live or anything like that so you can stay fairly anonymous and still make friends and have a good chat, everyone I've talked to is very friendly, I would be very pleased if you would message me, thats why I'm here, and I will be your friend x

Hi, I really feel for you and hope we can take away some of the lonliness you must be feeling. Another member who was widower might be able to help as she has come though the worst bit, it might help if you talk, she can pass on some tips for coping. You have got all our support xxx